2019 Goal: Find My Sexy
This year it's all about finding my sexy. You up for it too?
Find My Sexy. Find My Sexy? What does that even mean? I recently went to support my friend in her dance recital. No, it wasn’t ballet or contemporary or jazz. It was a Grown Ass Dance Recital presented by Soul Thru’ Sole. A variety of women, different shapes, sizes and skin shades in black leotards tearing the house down with Hip Hop and R&B. They represented so many things but what I got was Sexually Liberated Confident Excellence.
“I feel like finding my sexy means discovering who I am as a grown woman. It means fully embracing what makes me attractive and desirable. It’s finding power in everything I’ve been given.”
I took a few classes with Soul Thru’ Sole before but this year with all of my live performances and work schedule I didn’t hit up as many. When I took the classes it was always fun and just a nice break from my busy life. Plus I got to do my second love, dancing. The first thing I ever wanted to be was a choreographer after I learned Janet Jackson’s routine in her All For You music video. I even was co-choreographer for my dance team Senior year in high school. Although I dance in my videos, when I perform live I stick to just staying stable.
But back to finding my sexy. I feel like finding my sexy means discovering who I am as a grown woman. It means fully embracing what makes me attractive and desirable. It’s finding power in everything I’ve been given. And the fun part is that I already started. It’s coming out in my writing. I want to explore what it’s like to write sensual poems and songs that celebrate self-love and sexuality. I even started writing a song based off a line from my friend’s song. He laughed when I told him I needed the “Sensual Writing Guidance”. Finding my sexy also means taking care of my body. I amped up the gym visits and I feel incredible. I realized that working out is not an option for me anymore. It’s a necessity for me to stay energized and happy. I’m happy with the goal I set for myself and know that it will come out in other ways as well, and I’m super excited to see that.